Centuries of Intimacy: Homosociality in South Asia

AHA Session 176
Society for Advancing the History of South Asia 3
Saturday, January 6, 2024: 8:30 AM-10:00 AM
Franciscan C (Hilton Union Square, Ballroom)
Chair:
Janaki Bakhle, University of California, Berkeley

Session Abstract

Scholarship on intimacies in South Asia largely focuses on heterosexual relations in the form of conjugality, concubinage, and prostitution, and marginally on homoeroticism/homosexuality (Ruby Lal, 2005; Durba Ghosh, 2006; Ruth Vanita, 2012). In alignment with more recent work (Mana Kia 2020; Dominic Vendell 2021), our panel seeks to decenter sexuality as the prime focus of intimacy, and re-orient the discussion on South Asian historical intimacies to questions of homosociality and friendship. By doing so, we seek to address the extent of intimacies in constituting political, ritualistic, and socio-cultural networks. We explore both female-female as well as male-male socialities, how they evolved, and how they were continually sustained through gender-segregation in the household, places of worship, and in social and public life.

South Asian historians rarely engage in cross-temporal conversations across the precolonial, colonial, and postcolonial divide. We understand this scholarly lacuna to be a legacy of colonial historiography and history. Hence, our panel bridges the temporal and historiographical gap by looking at how various forms of homosociality transformed with changing patterns of socialization, domesticity, education, religious practice, and so on over a longue duree.

The four papers of our panel examine different regions of South Asia - from Rajputana, Deccan, Punjab, to Bengal, as we explore connections in intimate homosocialities across these diverse spaces historically. The first paper studies the implications of friendships forged vertically between local chieftains and elite officials in the seventeenth century Mughal Empire. How forms of intimacies based on diplomatic relations transformed structures of power and tied the Empire with its local bodies on an affectual plane is what the paper explores. The second paper begins by historicizing Brahman heteronormativity across the seventeenth and eighteenth century Deccan. It highlights how the Peshwa regime regulated non-conformimg Brahman comportment as embodied by the 'missing' Mahānubhāvs, and invested in creating a decidedly homosocial community of professional biographers. The author argues that this community, imbricated with 'the Brahman Raj,' produced and popularized a specific heteronormative model of sexual comportment using the popular language of bhakti, thereby shaping the contours of acceptable sociality in caste entrenched Hinduism. The third paper questions conventional notions of race and class by exploring the relations between queens of princely states with their European governesses in late colonial South Asia. Reading letters and memoirs which reify the space of female friendships, the paper unpacks deep cross-cultural intimacies which disrupts the ‘mistress-maid’ binary. The final paper of the panel demonstrates how popular culture constitutes ideas of friendship. A close reading of two Bengali movies from the nineteen seventies highlight the role of the elder brother in not only creating spaces of male bonding but also reconfiguring ideas of civility and reinforcing middle-class stereotypes. Taken together, the panel seeks to understand how homosociality informs aspects of empire, caste, race, community, and interpersonal relationships from precolonial to postcolonial South Asia.

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